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    Finding America’s Greatness

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Finding America’s Greatness

Barb 2018-11-07T23:27:34-05:00

You may not think about greatness and kindness in the same sentence, however, this blog is about honoring greatness found in everyday kindness. On my recent visit to the United States Air Force Academy, a military academy for officer cadets of the United States Air Force in Colorado Springs, I discovered  greatness does not exclude kindness.  I learned that airmen are taught to live and serve with a commitment to three core values: “Integrity First, Service before Self, and Excellence in all they do.”  Service before self is explained as “An Airman’s professional duties take precedence over personal desires. Every Airman is expected to have the discipline to follow rules, exhibit self-control and possess respect for the beliefs, authority and worth of others.”  This respect is where kindness breeds.

This campus is truly a national treasure.  I knew the aircrafts on their grounds would be interesting to my husband.    What I did not expect was the beautiful chapel, a modern cathedral.  I had seen pictures but being there was truly awe inspiring. The chapel was breathtaking with the majestic Southern Rocky Mountains as a backdrop.  Standing inside the chapel looking out at the stunning mountains through the beautiful stained glass windows was a refreshing moment for the soul. 

It was magnificent and peaceful simultaneously. I could imagine all the great leaders that had prayed in those pews, for their own safety and our country’s safety.

No matter what the cadets’ religion; there was a place for them to worship how they wished in a separate section of this beautiful chapel. Each faith has their own space. This is what religious freedom is about, tolerance for diversity.  I can’t think of a better example of exhibiting American ideals of religious freedom. All of these religions coexisting, all of these cream of the crop cadets learning leadership skills to serve and to protect our country with honor. This is what religious freedom is about, this is what makes America so great: people of all religions protecting our country.  The diversity among the cadets does not divide them; they are still able to work as a unit.  I realized a prerequisites for kindness is tolerance.  It is hard to be kind to someone if you can not tolerate them. The airmen and women are living the core value of “respect for the beliefs, authority and worth of others.”

One of the sophomores’ priorities is to learn “to promote mutual respect, fairness, and divinity in interactions.”   This is so profound, I wish living this would be mandatory for every politician.  How insightful were the cadet curriculum developers,  to know great leadership is based on “mutual respect, fairness, and divinity in interactions.” Truly one of the influence’s that have created great Air Force Officers who are also great leaders.   It was inspiring to walk where these great leaders have walked.  Being on the campus has restored my faith in how great America is.

Staying in Touch: Barbara Hirsh can be reached at info@LiveKinder.com  I love hearing your kindness stories.  Please sign-up for a weekly kindness message at www.LiveKinder.com or follow LiveKinder on Facebook!

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    How Generous Are You?

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How Generous Are You?

Barb 2018-11-07T23:11:22-05:00

When you hear the word “generous,” what comes to mind? Many people think of the millionaire benefactor giving millions for a new wing at the hospital. When I hear such stories, I think how wonderful it is that the benefactor has learned that giving money is a source of happiness as well as a source of helpfulness to the community. The problem with this “millionaire-generous-thinking” paradigm is that it works for only one percent of the population.  Most of us will never be in a position to give millions away.  We may think, “If we had extra millions to give away, we would do the same.”

However, you don’t need millions to be a generous person.  You can be retired on a fixed budget, like my friend Paulette, who is one of the most generous people I know.  She always thinks about the needs of others and how she can give of herself to help, be it with her time, her heart, or her funds.  Her brain is wired for compassion.  

Paulette is generous with her time. She drove an hour in Friday night traffic for two years to give free painting lessons to a teenager from a broken home.  The painting lessons were a vehicle to help the teenager get over her shyness.  The painting gave her a voice, but Paulette was also a sympathetic outlet for her to become more.  It was first time the teenager had gotten praise of any kind. Paulette has compassion not only for kids but for the elderly too. I so appreciate her time in visiting with my mom.

Paulette gives her heart freely.  When she sees a homeless person, she would be the one giving them a hug, as well as, money or food.

Paulette also receives great happiness from giving material things to her friends, family and strangers. She spends more on others than herself. She always thinks of objects as a way of bringing happiness to others.  For example, she gave my daughter a beautiful dollhouse Paulette’s father made because she knew my two granddaughters would cherish it more than her three grandsons.

I’ll never forget when she picked up acorns from my yard so her squirrels in her “oakless” neighborhood could have some acorns. She always find ways to give to those unfortunate, even when they are only squirrels.

Being generous is about giving of your time, your heart, and resources to your family, friends, and strangers, with no expectations.  Paulette gets great satisfaction from giving, even when there may not be any hint of gratitude given in return; now that is a generous person.

Next time you are about to judge someone, stop and think like Paulette, “What can I do to make the situation better?”  Paulette always lives her truth: to live with compassion, to give freely with her heart, with her time and with her resources.  You don’t need millions to be generous, you just need compassion for others.  Paulette is this week’s Caring Heart award winner.

Quote for the day… 

“Money is but one venue for generosity. Kindness is an even more valuable currency.”

— Alan Cohen

Discussion question:  What definition of “generous” do you live by?  What can you do today to be generous?

Staying in Touch: Barbara Hirsh can be reached at info@LiveKinder.com  I love hearing your kindness stories.  Please sign-up for a weekly kindness message at www.LiveKinder.com or follow LiveKinder on Facebook!

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